Seem, I know it really is unfair to generalize by phoning all men jerks, thus I don’t do this — particularly because deep-down, i am aware (or perhaps hope) it isn’t really real. That being said, i really do think there’s an epidemic of losers available to choose from although only a few dudes are exactly the same, most of them truly seem to be.

1. 
   I have heard all ‘bad guy’ tales.
   
   I literally heard many stories about bad men from my pals, work colleagues, and generally each alternate lady I’ve previously met — and that’s not really taking into account most of the bad encounters I had myself personally in internet dating. After hearing all those things stuff, could sometimes be depressing.
2. 
   Many bad guys show exactly the same attributes.
   
   Most of the guys we familiar with date were bad guys, therefore I think I just have myself to blame for selecting all of them on the great guys (on that in slightly). The point is that they shared most same qualities, such lying and deficiencies in commitment. Coincidence? Really don’t think so. It is like these were checking out from the exact same relationship guide!
3. 
   Absolutely grounds the reason why great guys are called “unicorns.”
   
   A unicorn is described as a mythical animal, and locating a great guy often feels like noticing a unicorn in the active city, appearing all sparkly and peaceful, with Louboutins within my size on its straight back. The “unicorn” term wouldn’t have would have to be designed when describing a great man if fantastic guys had been all around us.
4. 
   Plenty dudes are not wanting some thing real.
   
   Once again, maybe not generalizing here, but there are lots of guys that are just looking for some thing fun, without strings connected. In fact, in a
   research by James Madison University
   that asked men and women about whether they prefer hooking up over traditional relationship, effects revealed that 41 percent of women preferred standard internet dating to connecting, when compared to 20% of men.
5. 
   Countless dudes are superb… until such time you become familiar with them.
   
   The reason why it’s easy to-fall for some guy just who seems great, and then discover he’s up to no good? The guy comes across because great at the beginning. This occurs more frequently that males may think. Already been through it, had gotten conned, however wanting Ashton Kutcher to operate into the space shouting, “you’ve got punked!”
6. 
   Maybe I’m to blame… or am I?
   
   Possibly I’m to be blamed for considering most guys are exactly the same because i have been usually the one
   selecting the bad guys
   as opposed to the nicer people. Okay, We declare that. But in spite of this, I can’t be blamed based on how many wanks and bad males tend to be available, can I?!
7. 
   Males have been ghosting ladies for decades.
   
   Yes, men and women ghost other individuals, in my personal knowledge dudes were ghosting women for many years — long before “ghosting” turned into these types of a dating development and taboo. Since I was a student in my personal adolescents, i have spent a lot of per night sobbing over some loss, wondering why he will not answer my personal texts. Men created ghosting.
8. 
   Men are a lot more narcissistic.
   
   A
   three-year learn
   from the college of Buffalo class of Management discovered that guys tend to be more narcissistic after evaluating over half a million subjects. Exactly why is this the fact? It comes right down to all of them getting less stigmatized whenever they flaunt their narcissistic behavior. Yup, culture is far more accepting of it.
9. 
   Lots of men simply want intercourse.
   
   Okay, so might there be most females available to you who happen to be in search of gender next to the very first go out but i’dn’t know because I date males. Very, in my opinion, there were many guys who’re checking for an easy sex treatment within the guise of online dating. Investing some time on a dating application is enough to see that the quality of discussion often ends up in your penis pic ditch.
10. 
    Guys cheat more frequently in-marriage.
    
    Studies have discovered that
    men cheat to their wives
    above women cheat on their husbands, very forgive myself if you are some afraid to take that large walk down that aisle.
11. 
    A lot of men never want smart women.
    
    Its sad but true. Even though many men claim to should go out intelligent females, this isn’t constantly the fact. They generally’re completely
    unnerved by smart women
    . In a
    2006 speed-dating experiment
    , the men surveyed located intelligence appealing unless the smart girl under consideration had been smarter than all of them. Hmmm.
12. 
    A lot of men have fun with the exact same connection video games.
    
    Certainly, both sexes play video games in relationships. Some typically common video games lots of men enjoy playing tend to be mind video games to feel effective. Additionally they prefer to test themselves by trying to entice attractive females, and so they like challenging – for this reason we have now constantly said the male is the hunters, I guess. They generally’ll actually try to keep a female on her toes by building her up with compliments and breaking their all the way down with insults. This occurs over it must. Ugh. It is a nightmare nowadays.
13. 
    Plenty dudes tend to be wanks.
    
    There are a lot men online who become total wanks. They truly are self-centered, mean, pompous, and also the number continues on. Sadly, it pays is along these lines. Males who have the “dark triad” attributes of narcissism, manipulation, and psychopathy (such as lying) in many cases are found to have even more intimate partners, based on analysis that sampled over 200 college students. It’s no surprise those bad guys take an electrical trip, however in my book, they truly are nonetheless jerks.